Text Flirting
What to Text Girls
Because text messaging is a fairly new concept, many of us have never been shown the secrets to texting a girl. So naturally, most guys surely blow it comes time for texting a girl.
Most guys misjudge the reason that a woman seems to quickly lose interest in them. One of the biggest reasons a man will lose a woman’s interest is over text messaging. Texting girls is something that any guy can learn. But it takes practice, knowledge, and the ability to recognize what kind of text messaging women respond to.
In order to figure out what kind of texts attract a girl and keep her liking you, you must first realize what texting girls should be used for.
3 Reasons for Texting Girls
Usually, a man will be texting a girl for one of three purposes:
- He is trying to make an initial contact after meeting her out somewhere.
- He just wants to keep himself in the girl’s mind until the next time he sees her.
- He is using texting to escalate his relationship with the girl to a more playful or sexual level.
Biggest Mistakes You Making Texting Girls
In a minute, I’m going to talk about how to text girls the right way… but first, I want to talk about some of the big mistakes you might be making when texting a girl.
Once you overcome these errors, it will be a lot easier for you to reach your objective texting girls.
Text Blunder #1: Texting a boring message serves no point. These sort of texts include; “How you doing?” or “What’’s going on?” Texts like these DO NOT distinguish you from the hundreds of other guys that are also texting the woman you’re talking to.
Text Blunder #2: The second big blunder is texting a girl too much and too often. Text messages should be used in limited doses in order to create mystery, suspense, and intrigue. If you are texting girls all the time, they will stop looking forward to your texts.
Text Blunder#3: The final blunder guys make is they try to have a conversation over texts. Texting shouldn’t be used as a way to get to know a girl.
Some other big blunders texting girls:
- Always texting a girl back too quickly and appearing needy
- Trying too hard to get her to like you
- Letting the girl control the flow of texting (ie. Is she always the one to end it??)
- Not getting playful,”flirtatious,” or sexual in your text messages
Flirtation over text message
Every message you send should have some type of playfulness and flirtation. You should always aim to demonstrate a fun side of your personality every time you are texting a girl.
During the first few text messages you are just trying to show her that you can be fun and social around girls. Your texts should always present the impression that you live a fun and adventurous life.
Stay light and playful, then jump into serious topics, and then back to being playful and flirtatious.
The technique is to banter with the girl back and forth and leave the interaction on a high note, by either stop texting the girl back, or by finishing it with a text like “talk later…”
It is also important to display small chunks of your personality in these messages, and avoid being boring like the plague.
This means you never make statements like “I’m bored,” or if she ask what you’re up to texting “Nothing special.”
Instead answer by being interesting, playful, and intriguing when texting a girl.
Now lets talk about the 3 rules to text flirting with girls.
