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Romantic Text Messages To Send Your Girlfriend

You’re in a happy relationship. So first off, congratulations. You are doing the thing that the media sells most of us on being one of the pinnacles of existence – found someone special to share your life with. You don’t have to troll around the bars looking for a woman, you’ve got one to come home to. Or, you’re juggling several girlfriends and you want to find sweet things to text them to keep them off your back and finding out about each other. Whatever the case may be, you want to text sweet things to people that you know. So good on you. You’re a good spirit. Here are some sweet text messages to send to your girlfriend, a special someone you’re in a relationship.

1  Flowers.

I’m dead serious. You know what one of your phones’ functions is? It can take pictures. A lot of pictures – of whatever it is that you want to take pictures of. So something that you can do that’s the simplest thing in the world to spike a woman’s emotional investment is go to a flower market, and take pictures of all the flowers there. It’s cheap and you can send them to whoever you want at any time, with NO CHARGE. There’s no charge for sending text flowers. Real flowers, they charge you for those. You’ll get points for creativity, and that’s never bad when you’re in a relationship with somebody. Creativity is what’ll keep things fresh and moving.

2.  ‘Want some dessert?’

Women are perpetually hungry. Because they’re perpetually on diets that are purportedly going to help them get everything they want in life – better jobs, better lives, and better men. It’s one of the easiest things to internalize, that skinny is good and big is bad. Consequently, they’re constantly hungry for food that’s forbidden. Ice cream, frozen yogurt, chocolate covered red-velvet twinkies – women love dessert. But they can never have it when they want it. So when you’re out and happen to run into a good dessert, take a picture. Send it to her. Offer her some. Chances are you’re going to get a positive response. The best part about this text? You can send it out en masse, same with the flower text. Especially if you’ve got several girls that you want to emotionally charge and keep tabs on. It’s a perfect sweet text message to send your girlfriend.

3.  ‘Good morning. You should have the most amazing day you can possibly have.’

Send it out in the morning. In fact, when you’re saying ‘good morning’ back and forth to someone, it’s virtually impossible for them not to form some sort of emotional connection and bond with you. You’re starting out the day with them. It’s an amazing thing – the more time you spend with someone, the more they bond to you emotionally. Wonder why cast-mates in movies eventually wind up hooking up with each other? They’re put in emotionally pressured situations and spend long hours together. You can simulate that kind of emotional connection with little messages in the morning or at night – it’s the easiest way to build something up special.

4.  Pictures or things you notice throughout the day.

People like knowing that they’re being remembered throughout the day and the duration of the relationship. Because that’s what relationships are – a mutual exchange of emotional investment for the benefit of both parties. Did you notice something goofy during the day? Let her know about it. Did you run into the craziest person today at Jamba Juice or find some event happening around town that she might be interested in? Let her know. It’s wonderful when you’re reminded that someone’s thinking about you – possibly the sweetest thing that you can do.

5.  A meet up.

Text messages are good and all, but you know what’s the sweetest thing you can possibly do for your girlfriend? Go out with her. Take in some culture. Go to an event and let her accompany you – it’d be the best time both of you have. Text messages are a good form of communicating, but here’s the funny thing about them – they’re not exactly romantic. Which would you rather have, a woman texting you her naughty bits, or meeting up with them in person to show them to you? Personally, I’d much rather have the second one, and unless you’re afraid of real, live women, so would you.

What’s romantic to one person can be completely unromantic to the next. One man’s meat is another man’s poison – so the best thing that you can do is see what your girlfriend finds romantic, and make sure that you’re doing more of that throughout the day. And let her know you’re thinking about her – it’s the best thing to build up a stable relationship.

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Here is a brand new video where Bobby Rio explains the best texts to send a girl.

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Romantic Text Messages to Send a Girl

One of the things that keep a girl going through the day is the promise of future romance. That’s right, romance. Every girl wants to meet the man of her dreams – she either wants to have a fun day, go shopping for the things she wants to buy, go traveling, and find the man of her dreams.

So let’s say you’re in a relationship with a girl, and everything’s going great. You’re connecting on a good level, you want to do nice things for here – daresay, even romantic? So the day you want to start doing romantic things for somebody, you’re looking for the right things to say…we have you covered. But to become a true man of romance, you’re going to have to do some things on your own – some experimentation, gaining some knowledge for yourself – but these are some easy romantic texts to play with.

Sweet, Romantic, and Flirty Text Messages

1.  Let’s go out tonight. I’m going to surprise you.

Text messages are all well and good, but I’m a giant advocate of the real world. As in, stepping outside, being in the moment, appreciating what you have, and what the world has to offer, and indulging in it. There’s nothing better than being with someone whose company you appreciate, having a great experience, and letting it seep into your consciousness as a memory. Here’s the thing – women like a man to be dominant. If you surprise a woman, and the surprise is good – there’s nothing that gets her heart a racin’ and loins a stirrin’ better than that. So if you have the opportunity, surprise her. For instance…

2.  Surprise! Got you tickets to Spain!

Now, this is a giant hypothetical. You don’t necessarily need to give somebody tickets to Spain to enjoy and reap the benefits of positive emotional spikes. You can give her anything, provided that it’s something she doesn’t expect and would really enjoy. That makes fezzes out of the question, unless she enjoys festive hats. Too much of this is a bad thing, and what some people would deem as ‘rich guy game’. You don’t want to be buying her things all the time, you want to be rewarding her through operant conditioning and going from there. Operant conditioning is when you are intermittently rewarded, so you’ll keep emotionally investing in something until the end of time. Which is what you want out of a relationship, right?

3. You have no idea how beautiful/adorable/adjective you are.

Women love compliments. If you’ve been around long enough to know how to use the internet, you know how much women love compliments. They love them more than anything. They help validate them, hint at the fact that they’re worth tons and tons of people’s times – and that’s what helps them feel the most attractive. Also, if you’re being romantic towards someone, make sure that you’re dating someone that you feel romantic towards, otherwise your compliments will ring hollow, and it won’t be as genuine and nice. More importantly, you’ll be living a lie, and honesty is the most important thing.

4.  Got you something. Check outside.

Another surprise. Basically, the most romantic things that you can do for someone involve surprises and being dominating in a light and affectionate way. That’s all a woman is waiting for – to be swept off her feet. This one involves a gift. I used to leave boxes of wafer cookies and a note at the house of people I was involved with if they were feeling bad – it almost always brightened their day and made them more attached. It’s way easy to do, too, especially if there’s something they enjoy that you can give that doesn’t cost that much. In another case, somebody I knew really enjoyed In N’ Out’s fries – which cost basically nothing to buy and bring by. Free haircuts. See how this can apply so easily to your life? Good deeds cost way less than manipulative ones, karma-wise and in terms of expenses.

5. You had a bad day. Let me help you out.

This is the text that you send that’s a precursor to a very important key to the sexual escalation puzzle – you are going to give a girl a massage. Girls love massages – they aren’t touched platonically enough, and when someone is purportedly touching them platonically, that person is generally getting ready to have sex with them. What’s more romantic than a good dead that’s not looking for any other deed in response? Nothing’s more romantic than that. So text her that, and give her a massage. Or something that she’s after.

6. Meet me at _____ tonight.

Nothing more romantic than flying by the seat of your trousers and making plans spontaneously, right? Make sure you’re in enough with the girl where she’d encourage that, and it’s not something where you sound like you’re going to be dropping drugs off at her house or meeting her in a darkened, shady alley. That would not be a good thing.

7. I miss you.

Pretty self-explanatory. And if someone else is missing you at the same time, it’s the most romantic thing you can tell them.

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Sweet Text Messages to Send a Girl

Now, before we run down a list of sweet text messages that you can send someone, here’s something that you have to consider. A lot of women aren’t comfortable with someone being overtly sweet without any form of investment back at them.

So if you’re sending messages to a woman without any cues or inclination on her part that she’s into you – guess what? You’re doing game wrong. If you’re spilling your heart out to someone and she’s not into it – you’re probably never going to talk to her again. Learn social cues and learn them well, my friend. That being said – here are some cute text messages you can send to someone who deserves sweet text messages.

Sweet Text Messages

1.  Just wanted to tell you, I was thinking of you.

I think that when you have a really good connection with someone, it helps to know that you’re thinking about them. Provided that you’re not texting them constantly about how you’re thinking about them. It helps if you’re detached, but the minute that you want to show a little bit of sweetness, it helps if you let them know. This is the most direct way of doing it. If you want to make it funnier, tell her this after something that wouldn’t particularly remind someone of anybody. Like, ‘I finally saw My Little Pony.’ It’ll break up the sweetness of the text message. You know – to keep her guessing.

2.  Send her a picture of some flowers.

I’m a giant proponent of this one. The thing about technology, is that it can be used to either expedite interactions and make them more eventful, or make things more terrible and cold. How would you like to use it? Personally, I’d want to use our newfound powers for good instead of evil, so I like doing things like taking pictures of lovely things and sending them to people who want to get sweet text messages. If they’re deserving. So, one of the sweetest things you can do is go to your local flower market, take a picture of the goods there, and send them to the ladies you feel like being sweet to. It’s a creative way to send sweet text messages.

3.  Send her a picture of some dessert or something you’re cooking.

There’s something about actual physical pictures instead of words that helps build up emotional investment in a person. It’s the same thing as matte backdrops and animatronics instead of CGI. CGI is soulless and doesn’t look right – text messages are the same. They require the least amount of investment to write and make. Now, something you’ve cooked, on the other hand, takes a while to make – and women are always into someone that can demonstrate a lot of male paternal investment – that thing that makes women think you’d be good with babies…it attracts her to you. So send her a picture of anything that you’ve worked on, including dessert, cooking, something. And offer her some.

4.   If she sends you a picture of herself, compliment her on it.

First off, if a girl is sending you pictures of herself, it’s a definite sign that she’s interested. And oftentimes, it’s a chance for you to say something sweet other than, ‘Aww lawd, girl, show me them titties.’ So compliment her on the way she looks. Unless you feel like she’s shooting for investment just by sending you a picture – in which case you make her work for the compliment. But in any case – it’s a sweet thing to tell a woman she’s looking good. Especially when you need it.

5.  Let’s go out and do something!

What’s the sweetest thing in the world? Not staring at your phone all day. Going out, enjoying life, and doing it with someone you want to be with – for that day, for that week, however you want to do it. You can do a lot more in person than you can via text or through technology – we live in a time period where sometimes technology can be the easy way out, but you want to be good in person. You want to be able to seduce women when you actually see them.

6.  Miss ya.

Realistically, we miss human contact whenever we don’t get it. Because we’re so caught up in technology and social networking, we oftentimes forget that there are people outside, in real life, who are waiting to meet up with us if you give them a chance. So instead of missing them, as you could send with this sweet text message – what you could do is use that as an impetus to meet up with them. There’s nothing sweeter than actual human contact.

So send out some sweet text messages, and before long, you’ll be able to understand when to give good investment, and when to limit it.

Magnetic Messaging: Unlocking the Key Lock Sequence

What is Magnetic Messaging?

Magnetic Messaging is a guide for men who want to increase their skill at texting a woman.  The program, created by Rob Judge and Bobby Rio, explains a specific methodology for turning a phone number into a date.

The foundation of the program is “The Key Lock Sequence.”  The Key Lock Sequence is a set of specific texts to send women all designed for a singular purpose.

Most men mess up texting because they have no game plan for each time they send a message out.  This lack of game plan causes them to spin their wheels getting nowhere.

What is included with Magnetic Messaging?

The program included two ebooks (Magnetic Messaging and The 99 Best Texts of All Time) one mp3 “Unleashing the Key Lock Sequence” and a video series called The Infatuation Formula.

The program is easy to consume and you can actually begin using the product immediately.  Rob Judge provides hundreds of example texts you can send women.  He also includes various transcripts of his interactions with women over text.

These are good because you can browse through them and read exactly what he send, and why it worked for getting the woman turned on and ready to go out with him.

This program covers all the styles of learning.  Videos for visual learners,  ebooks for those who learn more from reading, and MP3 for those who learn on an auditory level.  This makes the program the complete package.

What is The Infatuation Formula?

The Infatuation Formula is a formula for creating intense infatuation in a woman. This goes beyond “attraction” and creates an uncontrollable urge to be with you.

It’s based on using proven psychological principles for “engineering” love.  These include three distinct methods of attack.  You are looking to influence her “social self” feminine self” and “ideal self.”  When you can influence all three of these sides of her, she will be wrapped around your finger.

What is The 99 Best Texts of All Time

The 99 Best Texts of All Time is a collection of Rob Judge’s best and most effective texts he has ever sent women.  He went through two years worth of text messages and chose his most successful and included them in this guide.

These include:

• Text openers
• Flirty texts to move to the next level
• Recovery texts for when you mess up
• Birthday and holiday texts to stand out from the crowd
• Texts to invite her out
• and much more

The 99 Best Texts of All Time is also available to put onto your cell phone so that you can store them on your phone and use them when needed.

Who is Magnetic Messaging for?

The program is designed for any guy who is struggling to spark attraction or turn attraction into a meetup over text message.  Let’s face it, if you can keep attraction alive over text you’re going to keep watching girls slip away.

If that is the case, you’ll want to grab a copy of Magnetic Messaging.

Romantic Good Night Text Messages

You’re getting the number of some girls, making everything work right, and you’ve even got a few that you really like. You’re talking to more and more of them, and suddenly you decide that you want to text them.

You want to text them good night text messages. So firstly, you want to make sure that you’re on good enough grounds with her emotionally that you can send her a text message before you go to bed. If you’re being the guy who’s too needy – hold off. If it’s something that’s in character and not too needy, then by all means, go ahead. Send a girl some good night text messages. Here are a few you can bounce around until you start coming up with your own.

Best Good Night Text Messages

1.  Good night.

Traditional. Easy. The kind of thing you’d send to somebody that you care about – and if you care about the girl, don’t get all fancy. Don’t try to spike her emotional buying temperature with something that you’ve spent days thinking about, don’t try to tickle her fancy with anything that you’ve been saving up – just wish her good night. In fact, if there’s a girl that you think could use a good night on your text message list, wish her good night.

2.  Tell her something horrible as a non-sequitor, then wish her goodnight.

This is one of the more advanced ones. You tell her something that you’ve noticed in life, that doesn’t really relate to her going to sleep, then wish her goodnight. Sound confusing? It’s not. Here’s an example that you can go by. ‘Isn’t it weird that people never know the names of 80’s one-hit wonders? This is my way of telling you goodnight.’ Boom. Simple. Over and done with, and you can stop worrying about what else to say to her.

3.  Funny Good Night Text Messages

I’m a huge advocate of stupid jokes – they help alleviate certain situations, even if they’re atrocious, they can still get a laugh, and everybody likes them. How many stupid jokes have you heard being told over the years? How many times have you laughed at them and found some enjoyment deep inside yourself, despite knowing that they’re terrible, terrible jokes? Probably a lot. So text her a dumb joke, then tell her goodnight. One of my favorites? Why did Mickey break up with Minnie? Because she was fucking goofy. Also an easy way to see if she’s into you and tries to start sexually escalating.

Here’s a sweet text message.

4.  Sweet Good Night Text Messages

I’ll never be able to fall asleep if you don’t wish me good night.

This one, you have to make sure that you’re not a guy who she perceives as needy. Otherwise, you’re harassing her to text message you back – a situation that would annoy any sane and rational person. So you don’t want to be annoying the sane and rational people in your life, so just back off if you’re the guy who always is blowing up other people’s phones. Don’t be that guy, by the way. Women hate it, it comes off as needy, nothing good comes from being the guy who is blowing up people’s phones.

5.  A quiz question, or an interesting fact.

There’s a ton of great websites that you can draw interesting facts or trivia from, including omgfacts.com. They list things that you might not’ve thought of, or may be surprised to learn. Guess what? Having knowledge about a certain topic of interest is the same thing as adding value to someone. If you know something that’s interesting, pester them about it. For instance, ‘I bet you don’t know why pirates wore eyepatches on their heads.’ If they respond positively, tease them. Tell them that you’ll be able to tell them more in the morning. It’ll infuriate them, as they’ll be invested in you all night, and be waiting to get an answer in the morning. Pretty cool, right? Creates all sort of investment headed back towards you. Good kinds of investment.

6.  Think of how many people are all looking at the same sky right now. And we’re two of them. Goodnight.

This one’s a bit poetic. If you’ve got a girl that you feel strongly about or makes you feel poetic, what you want to do is express that instead of holding it inside. Holding it in never makes for an interesting story or a good emotional release – if you want to know what’d be the best idea for any course of action, go for the fun story.

But these are all just ones that we’ve come up with – the beautiful thing about social interaction is that every person’s will be different, everyone’s will have nuances that other people won’t have – so it’s the most important to figure out your own good night text messages to send to your girls.

Text Message Jokes

One of the best things that you can do to get better with girls is get yourself a nice sense of humor. A lot of material glosses over this fact, instead talking about how you’re going to break rapport with someone and do all these magical things to win them over when you could instead be using humor and getting essentially the same results or better. That is not to say that you should turn into some kind of dancing monkey, but as they say in ‘Sex in the City’, sometimes girls want to be with the guys that make them laugh. If you don’t have a bit of humor in your courting process, pick-ups, sarges, whatever you want to call them – you’re doing it wrong and could be doing it much, much better. So here are some fun text message jokes to send someone whenever you want to get a little bit of emotional investment out of them.

Some of my favorite text message jokes

1.  Why did Mickey break up with Minnie? Because Minnie was fucking Goofy.

I like this one. Not only is it a goofy joke to send, a funny text message joke, you could very, very easily move from talking about how stupid the jokes you send to people are to talking about sexual escalation – cartoon characters going at it, who was the hottest cartoon character, all these things are conversations that’ll spike her emotional interest and get you gossiping together – cementing your bond and making you that much closer to your goal of getting her to like you.

2. What do you do when you come across a tiger in the jungle? Wipe him off and apologize.

This is a gross one. Sometimes people don’t get it, and you can quickly turn that conversation in the direction of sexual escalation as well. Some people get it, and love it – as girls are more partial to sex and dick jokes than a lot of other people. More partial than you think. So don’t be afraid of sending them dirty jokes. Which’ll be important for the next few items on the list.

3.  How does Lady Gaga like her meat? RAH-RAH-RAH-AH-AW.

Most girls like Lady Gaga. MOST girls. Granted, this might not be the most timely of punchlines, but for the next few years that Lady Gaga is relevant, it might be of some use to you to milk this before she’s relegated back to an apartment in New York, releasing increasingly preachy message albums that sell incredibly well, but are far too annoying. If you can communicate sounds via text, too, you’re golden.

4. When does Sean Connery like to hit his balls? Tennish.

Everybody has done a terrible Sean Connery impression. This makes fun of terrible Sean Connery impressions – the likes of which reportedly drove him off the set of The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen. Also, if she visualizes Sean Connery hitting his balls, she may become rabid with desire. Maybe? Not really. It’s more of a goofy image.

5. What does Snoop Dogg put on his whites? Bleeeea-tch.

If she likes gangsta rap or knows the cultural icon that Snoop Dizzle is, she might get a good laugh out of it. If you have to explain who Snoop Dogg is, you should run far, far away, and not text that girl ever again. You can do better than date a person who has no idea about musical culture for the last twenty years or so.

6.  What’s Snoop Dogg’s favorite kind of weather? Drizzle.

Another Snoop Dogg joke. You can’t hate the man. He’s intrinsically hilarious and given his intrinsically hilarious state, you can’t help but transfer that through jokes about the man. Again, if she’s not privy to knowing about how Snoop Dogg talks, there’s an easy solution to that. Invite her over to watch Snoop Dogg music videos on YouTube. On your computer. Then you have a date, you can educate her, all because she didn’t get your stupid jokes.

7. Haha, I made you look at your phone.

This one is probably the most infantile, but it’ll occasionally get a great response. If it doesn’t get a great response, know that we warned you that it was probably the most infantile. Again, you’ve been warned. Know which people to use infantile humor with, and which people you should use high-brow humor with. Basically, if you don’t know your audience, it’s going to make it much harder to communicate with them in a hilarious way.

8.  Why can’t Smokey the Bear’s wife get pregnant? Because when she’s in heat, he beats her with a shovel.

Hey — violence against lovers. Not necessarily the best thing to mention when texting somebody you like, but it usually gets a laugh regardless.

As you can see, any joke that’s structures with a short two-lines is perfect to send via text message. Text message jokes will spike any person’s mood, and it’s a great way to communicate with people you like.  Hope you enjoyed these funny text messages.