Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend

Today we’re going to talk about something different:  How to Get a Girlfriend.  In a lot of the resources available online, you may notice a trend moving away from getting girlfriends and towards the kind of sex where you’d meet someone, charm them in the bar, and have sex with them in the bathroom stall. That is not always a viable option, or even an attractive one for members of the opposite sex – it purely appeals to a male fantasy.

Besides, you don’t want to have the type of women who’d have sex in the bathroom stall as your girlfriend – that’d be the most ridiculous thing in the world. You can’t make a ho a housewife. So you don’t want the fast and easy lays, you want the quality ones – you want to get a girlfriend and you don’t know how to get a girlfriend.

There are some easy ways you can plant the idea in a girl’s head that you’d be a viable candidate for a future boyfriend, and some things that you can do to make yourself attractive to someone who’s looking.  And help you find a girlfriend.

Skills that will Help You Get a Girlfriend

1.  Aquire boyfriend-type skills.

Guess what? Girls love it when men have the skills to take care of them. It’s a form of dominance, and also a sign that if she should choose to have babies with the man, he’ll make sure they don’t wander out a window or into the woods where they’d be helpless with their baby defensive skills. It’s a sign that they care about themselves enough to maintain things and to have ambition – always attractive.

What are boyfriend skills? Anything that’ll help you take care of someone. Cooking, backrubs, personal fitness, being able to brighten someone’s day – all of this adds huge amounts of value to you. Not saying you can’t be valuable if you don’t have those skills, all I’m saying is that it helps tremendously. Have a sense of fashion – be able to add something to her life. If you’re not able to do any of that, it’s going to be greatly detrimental to you.

2.  Know what you’re after.

Here’s a simple idea to help you get a girlfriend.  A lot of men wander around in the dating world, completely unaware of what type of woman they want to attract. They don’t even know what they want, they’ve been hungry so long – akin to a man that’s put in the desert, then let out, and he doesn’t care what he eats, as long as it’s something. Anything.

That perfectly describes the dating lives of a lot of men around the world – they don’t care what they have, as long as it’s something, anything to stave off the loneliness. A lot of women are the same way. It’d be much better for them to make a list of the qualities they’re looking after in a potential suitor instead of wandering around to make a Sisyphus-like effort pushing someone up their hill of standards. Get standards. It’s much easier to qualify someone based on them.

3.  Future-pace from the first encounter.

This is a pretty advanced technique, but if you’re trolling the TSB message boards for techniques, chances are that you’re already on your way to becoming an expert seducer, perhaps the greatest the world has ever known. So it’s given that you’d want to acquire this type of knowledge.

Future pacing is talking about the activities you’re going to do in the future. Simple as that. But, if they’re numerous and exciting activities in the future, you might be able to make her investment in you that much greater by sparking her emotions. Pretty simple – talk about cool stuff you’re going to do together, and that cool stuff will make her want to see you more.

4.  Have your own inside jokes.

Inside jokes can isolate someone in a group situation, but outside of that situation, recall past emotional investment in a way to draw someone closer to you. The closer you want to get with someone, the more inside jokes you should have with them. Even a pet name, or something to take them out of their headspace and remind them of all the fun times you’ve had is completely acceptable. It’s the start of a reciprocating relationship, and that’s what you want in an ideal situation.

One-sized relationships suck, we’ve all been there and had to deal with the lion’s share of emotional investment, only to leave scarred and broken. Don’t start off headed in that direction – start off where you’re both giving to each other – reciprocating.

5. Make the dates you go on incredibly interesting.

Who do you want to date – someone who has problems being creative, or someone whom you can’t wait to spend time with again? You want the second type. So do women. Make sure that you’re being exciting, taking them on dates to get their emotional investment up and riled, and go from there. Also? Have the gumption to ask her out. It’ll help get the ball rolling much easier.

These are some skills you need to build to learn how to get a girlfriend.

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Where to Meet Women

Women.

They’re the happiest bane to a man’s existence, responsible for much of his suffering, his happiness, his not-so-quiet moments, and in general responsible for much of our motivation and companionship for the majority of our lives.

Would the world be better if we didn’t need women?

Completely doubtful. But oftentimes, men have no idea where to find the type of women that they like, which is the saddest thing in the world. They’ll go looking for their wives in a club, and go looking for a party girl in a Barnes and Nobles. It just doesn’t work out. It’s not a good scene.

So where do you meet women? There are a number of options in the hustle and bustle, but we’re going to run down the advantages and disadvantages in each of them in today’s helpful column from TSB Mag.

Where to Find Women to Date

1.  In the real world.

Believe it or not, there are people walking around you right now, who very might well be attractive women. While you’re reading this, in a local café or sitting in your favorite armoire, there are attractive women outside, doing everything that attractive women commonly do. Shopping, arranging get-togethers, and judging people – they’re all outside doing that. So you need to detach yourself from whatever monitor that your eyes are glued to and allow for a respite where you go outside and actually approach these women.

It’s not as hard as you might think – actually much easier once you take the time to go outside and just take a chance and talk to them. The cons? There are no cons to approaching people on the street in your day-to-day — you’ll expand your social circle, get more bold, and in general be more confident. None of which is a downside. The only downside is that it feels weird – so weird, in fact, that most PUA’s who profess that they’re experts in approach, don’t even feel like doing it that often.

2.  Where to meet women online.

Online dating is a multi-billion dollar industry, all because people will spend an inordinate amount of money when it comes to their libidos and making sure they have something warm to hold against them during the night. Each site caters to a group of clients, but basically, you can use all of them to meet up with women. Match.com, jdate.com, whatever it is that you’re after – there’s a website for it.

If you want to use an online dating website to actually meet in person, though, you’re going to have to wade through the trouble of messaging people and looking through their profiles. Additionally, while it’s much easier to talk to attractive women that are out and about, on the internet, they only respond to exactly what they’re looking for. So unless you’re exactly the type of person that an attractive woman is looking for, you might want to take it someplace else.

3.  At social gatherings.

The easiest place to meet women is to find them in places where you’re already socially proofed and having fun. That’s right, at parties. That’s the one reason people throw parties, anyway – to attract people. Most people’s fiancés or significant others come from being in the same social circle – they meet at college, or at a work event, they work for the same company in a different division – this is how people typically get together. It helps if you have friends who know a lot of different girls, or better yet…and this is the real kicker – if you know attractive women, it’ll be much, much easier to meet other ones. Attractive women are at ease with a man who can be at ease around attractive women. So the entire point is rolling into a club with a bunch of attractive women and using that social proof to help out other interactions. You can only get to that point when you’re already at a good level of game. So you need to get out and practice.

4.  At the places they like to go.

Different girls will like going to different places. You’re going to get a very specific type of girl if you’re hanging out at art gallery openings than if you’re hanging around trashy nightclubs in Dallas or London. You’re going to meet different types of women at a bookstore than you are in a dive bar. Keep that in mind. Most girls don’t like meeting their potential matches out at bars – it doesn’t make for a wholesome story for their family and friends…hence, social circle is where you should be focusing on most of your efforts. Wonder how Hollywood Playboy-types pull so many girls?

They have giant, expansive social circles. So get out and start one up on your own. It’ll make knowing where to find women that much easier.

How to Approach Women

Here’s a video on how to get over your fear of approaching women. So that you can take advantage of all of these places.

What does a beautiful, mega-successful actress do after calling it quits with two of the biggest stars in Hollywood (Bruce Willis and Ashton Kutcher)? Date an obscure Canadian musician of course! The trouble-addled actress Demi Moore is rumored to be texting Ricky J, a Canadian DJ/rapper.

According to RadarOnline.com, Moore has been “texting up a storm” with the rapper, best known for “No Means No,” a single released over a decade ago.
“’Demi and Ricky have been getting very flirty recently,’ a source close to the situation tells RadarOnline.com. ‘Ricky thinks she’s really hot, and Demi seems to be loving the attention.’”
A new relationship might be just what Moore needs. The star has been having issues since the announcement of her upcoming divorce from “Two and a Half Men” star Kutcher. Among other things, she was recently hospitalized for inhaling nitrous oxide.

On the other end of the fame spectrum, Ricky J’s most recent headline was hitting #42 on the Canadian Hot 100 in 2010 with his single “Whatta Night.” Perhaps in an effort to break the US charts, he’s looking to get Moore to guest vocal on an upcoming track.

An A-list movie star dating a relatively unknown Canadian rapper seems like an odd pairing, but it might be beneficial for the two. Moore will reclaim her status as world’s most famous cougar, while Ricky J will have a new love, a new singer and a pretty big cred boost. If this works out, we might just be hearing more Canadian rap on the radio. For Ricky J’s sake, “No Means No” better not apply to texting Ms. Moore back.

Dating Advice for Men

The world of dating is a weird, weird world. That’s why so many horror stories come from it. Less horror stories come from actual horror novels than the world of real-world dating, and that fact is disturbing to anyone who puts a feeler out to the real world of men meeting women, women meeting men, and same genders meeting other same-gendered people. Or any other variation we might’ve missed. It’s all basically frightening and can scar you for life if you let it – you’ve probably met somebody that’s been incredibly burned by the dating scene. It’s not a pretty sight.

So, let’s try to sift through the chaff and find the strategies and tips that’ll work universally for people who are trying to either meet that special someone, or juggle a few special somebodies. These are dating tips for those out there carrying the Y-Chromosome. The men who want to get out there and get at them. Here are some things to keep in mind when you’re going around town, hitting the scene.

4 Dating Tips for Men

1. Women want to date good men.

They say 10% of the men that are out there get 90% of the women. Why? Because they’re the alpha males of the group. They have the pick of the women they want, while the rest of us shuffle our feet around and play the ‘nice guy’. They don’t have to. They already have the interest, and just have to parlay it into co-ordinating the proper logistics and pushing physical escalation forward. Sucks, doesn’t it? Not really, because once you learn what it is women are after, you can actively make yourself into the type of person that can add value to them instead of taking it away. You can stop being that guy who takes things away from people, and start being the guy who adds. It’s entirely fixable.

2. Women want to date men who are leaders.

This is more subtle, but if someone is projecting influence on the group, that’s the person everyone’s going to be attracted to. In a loud group, the quiet one is viewed as the odd one out and the attractive one. In a quiet group, the loud one is the same way. The person who can influence everyone’s actions and gets the most attention, the person that people defer to is generally the leader. You can be a leader. Stop being the quietest, most timid version of yourself, and live up to the promise of the image that you have in your head. Instead of thinking about what the proper thing to do in a given situation is, think about what the best version of yourself would do, and simply follow suit.

3. Don’t be afraid of getting sexual.

One of the biggest problems that you see again and again with guys that are going out is that they get the girls interested in them, then don’t know what to do once the energy in a conversation shifts in a different direction. Girls want to be sexual. Otherwise, they’d have no use for us men. They’d just sit at home, doing whatever it is that brings them joy, but there’s something in them – just like us – that makes them want to ravage the men they find attractive. You just have to be that attractive man. So, when the best version of yourself is faced with a girl who is hanging around you, trying to be alone with you, etc. etc. – what is he going to do? He’s going to step up his game and bring it to the next level is what he’s going to do. Isolate her, and start up an escalation ladder. Either one that you’ve heard about before, or one that works for you.

4. Don’t be afraid of meeting a lot of people.

There’s a great big world out there, with a lot of people doing a lot of different things. Guess what? You have an opportunity to sift through them and find the right person that works for you. That’s not a curse, it’s a blessing. Once you get out into the great big world of dating, you have to realize that having taste and choice will serve you in stead rather than limiting yourself. If you have taste and a powerful frame, be prepared – it’s going to be much easier than you originally thought it would be. Girls like that in people – it doesn’t matter what you look like. Looks are just what YOU think they are. Girls really don’t care.

They care more about what you bring to the table status-wise. But that’s an entirely different article to be looking at, other than just some simplistic dating tips for men.

Get out there and enjoy yourself. That’s what life is all about, isn’t it?  I hope you enjoyed these dating tips for men.

Dirty Text Messages

It seems Ozzy Osbourne has found other ways to communicate when his incomprehensible mumbling doesn’t do the trick: He sends dirty text messages. And according to his wife, Sharon Osbourne, the heavy metal legend more than follows through on his sexting.

In a recent interview with UK tabloid The Daily Star, Sharon Osbourne revealed that she and her husband have sex “all the time.” She even goes as far as to take breaks from her show “The Talk” to get it on with the Black Sabbath frontman.

“We used to do it five times a week,” said Sharon. “I take breaks from my chat show to have sex.”

Despite the couple voracious sexual appetite, Sharon was surprised to receive “dirty” texts” from Ozzy while he was touring Europe last year, as she believed he was unable to text.

“It’s good now because he’s texting. So we’re texting each other all the time. I got a text from Ozzy yesterday and I’m like, ‘Jesus, somebody’s stolen his phone.’ Because I thought somebody found his phone and they were texting me dirty messages. And Silvana, my assistant, goes, ‘Oh my god, Ozzy’s just sent you this really dirty text.’ And I’m like, ‘Well it’s not him, somebody must have stolen his phone, he can’t text’. But it was him.”

Next time you see Ozzy live, consider that the 63-year-old rocker might be going backstage between songs to send filthy text messages to his wife. You’ll never hear “Crazy Train” or “Iron Man” the same.

How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number

So you’re taking the initiative to go out, you’re hitting up the hot spots in your town, all you have to do next is meet the girls. So you’re meeting girls, you’re getting your game on, you’re doing everything you can during the interaction to turn her on your side.

Now you need to do the one thing that’ll let you see her later. You need to take the interaction to the next plateau and make it so you can keep in touch with each other and get in each other’s social circles — you need to get the girl’s phone number.

Now, a phone number has some loaded implications — a lot of girls don’t want to give out their phone numbers to strangers, some guys only collect the phone numbers of girls with no intention on following up on them. Which is why trading the number has to come at a certain point where she’s comfortable, even excited to be giving her number out, you’re stoked to have it, and both parties want to reciprocate. You can’t ever ensure that you’re going to meet up with a girl, you don’t know what’s going to come in any given interaction.

But phone numbers? You can help getting phone numbers. You can learn how to get a girl’s phone number. There are quick and easy ways. Here’s how.

The Best Ways to Ask For a Girl’s Phone Number

1. Make sure when you go out, you’re actually approaching people.

That’s right, the next time you go to a bar or a show, or any giant social gathering — don’t hug the wall and be antisocial, don’t be the guy who people are wondering why he’s sitting in the corner, arguing with himself, not talking to anybody at the bar or at the dance floor. You’re not going to pull any numbers if you’re enjoying the same habits that you’ve been doing in the last few years. Get out. Open. Socialize. That’s step one.

2. Be real good at building comfort.

The only thing you have to worry about when you’re getting into a conversation with a stranger is whether or not she’s comfortable with you, what she’s at in the interaction. If you can get to the point where she’s talking about her dreams and desires, and cool things to do around town, you’re already at the point where you can get her number. Then you just have to infer that you two should stay in touch, and go for the digits. It’s that easy. If you’re good at building comfort, you’ll be able to get anybody’s numbers who you want. If you’re not, you’re going to have a lot of work to do that you won’t be very happy about.

3. Be more excited about the event when you’re getting her number than the actual number.

This might be a foreign thing to some people, but you have to realize, the entire point of game is to project that you’re not that interested in your target, but she has every possible reason to be interested in you. So when you use words like ‘phone number’ instead of contact details and bring up the idea of exchanging it instead of letting her arrive at that conclusion, sometimes it looks like you’re being too overeager. You don’t want to be too overeager. That’ll cut you off at the knees. Don’t cut yourself off at the knees. Play it cool. And speaking of playing it cool…

4.Know what the interesting things to do around town are.

This can’t be stressed enough. If you’re going to look like any kind of leader, you have to know what’s going down in your town. You have to know what type of events the girls you’re talking to will enjoy going to, and hint at those events. If you don’t know what’s cool to do around town, try to get a travel guide, acquainted with the entire operation on Yelp or Citysearch — there are always cool things to be doing. And if you can’t be doing cool things in your town and you’re in a little one — guess what. You have the creativity and the space to arrange for your own time and events. That’s not a terrible thing — it’s a great thing.

5. Stop being afraid to ask for it.

Guess what — you’re going to get numbers if you ask for them. If you never ask for phone numbers, you’re never going to get them. The minute you start asking for them is the minute you’re going to start getting more and more of them. At the beginning, it’s an approach game — the more you approach, the more numbers you get….

…so get out there. Start making connections with people, start justifying reasons why you should stay in touch, and the numbers will start coming, much more easily than you anticipated. That’s how you can get a girl’s phone number.

How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

I also recommend this article on how to ask a girl out.

So now you know how to get a girl’s phone number, and how to ask her out.  Now its time you learn how to text a girl.

Breaking Up Over Text Message

Did your last relationship end with a text from your girlfriend reading “Soz. I gg. Thnks fr th Mmrs”? There’s a ten percent chance you’ve been dumped by a similarly gutless message, according to a recent survey.

As reported by the Daily Mail, one out of ten people get to deal with the shame and embarrassment that comes with feeling unworthy of an in-person breakup, let alone a phone call. Mobile phone site Recombu.com recently surveyed 2,000 people and found that text messaging plays a significant part in making and breaking relationships.

If ten percent of the population sounds small, consider that zero percent of the population got dumped via text 20 years ago. Ten percent is a significant number. Based on the current world population, that’s more than 67 million people potentially in line for an “It’s not working” text in their inbox.

Have you flirted with someone you shouldn’t have via text? You’re not alone. One out of four people do it, says the survey. Being so, a third of people secretly read the texts on their partner’s phone. It seems not too many people are worried about getting caught, however, since only ten percent of text flirters delete suspicious texts before their partner sees them.

Has someone broken it off with you in less time than it takes to play a round of “Angry Birds”? If so, you’re in the minority. For the time being, 90 percent of the population still gets to endure the much classier “dinner at Pizzeria Uno breakup.” Just pray that cell phone companies don’t start adding messages like “It’s not you, it’s me” or “I found somebody else” to the quick text feature or you might not get as much as a breadstick come next breakup.

How to Get a Girl to Text You Back

So you’ve got a girl’s number? Check. You’ve got an interested party on the other end? Check. You’ve got the wherewithal and ambition to push the interaction forward to a place where both of you want to go? Check. So you’re ready to make the first move, put yourself on the line, throw down for the things that you care about or the developing relationship that might be happening because you are in contact with this new person. But you have no idea how to get her to text back.

Like most things, though, you don’t have to fear, because the internet was built as a compendium, a resource to help people who want information but don’t quite know how to get to the spot they’re trying to get to. We at TSB mag are part of that compendium, so this is the definitive guide as to how to get a girl to text you back.

4 Steps to Get Her to Text You Back

When you’re talking about people texting back, you’re essentially talking about preventing flaking. Flaking is anything that’d happen inan interaction to stall the forward momentum, so you want to meet up with a girl, she’s not showing, you try to initiate a text conversation, she’s not biting, she avoids talking to you when she sees you out on the street, is heard cursing your name under her breath. Those type of thing would all be consider flaking. The very basest form of not flaking is returning the text messages you send out. Ideally, you’ll be texting her to continue the interaction, shoot for a meet-up, that kind of thing, but if she never responds, you’re toast. Here are some easy ways to cut down on text flaking.

1. When you get her number the first time, have a really, really good interaction.

The funny thing about people is, usually they don’t flake when the stakes are high and they have something to lose. If you had a really good first interaction with a woman, then she’s going to want to see you again. It’s as simple as that. If she wasn’t sure about you, and decided she wasn’t going to chase you and suddenly, you’re blowing up her phone – that’s a different matter entirely. So in order to make sure that you have the easiest time possible getting her to text back, make sure the first interaction goes seamless. Get her number based off of an event that the two of you would enjoy going to, make sure that there’s some unfinished threads in your conversation that you can wrap up later, and generally pace the interaction into seeing her again.

2. Once you have her number and start texting — end with a question.

Most things that people text girls don’t end in questions. Most things people text girls don’t always get a reply from the party intended – oftentimes because they don’t end in a question. The whole point of that is to build up a mini-compliance ladder so you can start getting more and more compliance from a person, eventually leading to a meet-up. If you don’t text a question, you are allowing the interaction to partially die right away. So don’t do that to yourself. Don’t shoot yourself in the foot or cut yourself off at the knees even before the interaction starts. You owe it to yourself not to.

3. Keep the interaction light and flirty.

People are much more inclined to keep a conversation going, via text, in person, or anywhere, if the tone of it is non-threatening and contributes to an overall sense of well-being and fun. If you can do that, even in short bursts like text messages, doing it in person is going to be much easier for you. So, keep it flirty. You’re much more likely to respond to someone who brings you good news or fun times, and women are no different. Don’t go overtly sexual, don’t be bringing up topics that are hard to comprehend, keep it simple and sweet.

4. Don’t be too needy.

I’ve heard instances of guys blowing up women’s phones to the tune of over 30 times a day. That’s ridiculous. The easiest way to get a girl to text you is to appear like you’re already doing better things, and then they’ll emotionally invest and chase you. It’s an old cliché, but people generally want things that they can’t have. If you come off too needy via text, you’re giving her reasons not to respond instead of good reasons to see you.

And you don’t want to be doing that. Fortunately, people usually reciprocate, so unless you had an entirely terrible interaction that is next to not recoverable, you’re solid.  Thats how to get her to text back.

Rihanna Texting Chris Brown

It looks like Rihanna is ready to “Talk That Talk” again with ex Chris Brown. The former couple have been texting and calling each other regularly, according to a recent article for Life & Style magazine.
Barbadian pop princess Rihanna and R&B entertainer Chris Brown have been in frequent contact with each other recently, according to a Life & Style source. “She stopped by his studio recently — twice. She’s also calling and texting him a lot. She won’t let go.” said the source.

The couple’s reuniting comes two years after a much-publicized domestic violence case, in which Brown beat Rihanna the night before the 2009 Grammys. Brown has since publicly apologized and completed not only domestic violence classes, but over a thousand hours of community service.

It seems Brown’s remorse and public makeover has brought about a change of heart in Rihanna. Not only has she been texting and calling the singer again, but the two have recently sent loving tweets to each other on Twitter.

Both Rihanna and Brown are scheduled to appear at the Grammys in February. It’s up in the air as to whether or not they’ll arrive as a pair. If all this texting keeps up, you just might see Brown and RiRi holding hands on the red carpet.

Cute Texts to Send a Girl

Let’s think of a hypothetical scenario. You’ve got a smartphone. You’ve got an interested party that you’re texting on this smartphone, someone of the opposite sex that you’ve been successfully interacting with thus far. You want to take it up a notch and fire her some cute texts that’ll spark the interaction to the next plateau so you can capitalize off of all your positive momentum, but are freezing up.

You have no idea what consists of a cute text, how to go about grabbing her attention and what’s in the realm of propriety for someone that you just met. Or you might want to send cute texts to a girl that you’re already halfway seeing or in a relationship with. The medium of text isn’t limited in any way – you can steer interactions the way you want to, once you actually know how to use it. Here are some easy ways to do that.

1. Send her cute jokes.

The medium of text is paced out so that you send a text, she sends a response, and generally you’re not going to be writing novel-length dissertations. They’re going to be short, fun, and flirty. So with abbreviated jokes, such as knock-knock ones or things similar in structure, you’ll not only have an easy tool to brighten someone’s day, it’ll keep the energy moving forward. You always want to be moving forward in an interaction, never having that awkward lull. Fun little jokes. They make any conversation better when you’re face-to-face with someone, why wouldn’t they make them better via text?

2. Pictures are flexible and easy.

There are some tactics that PUAs circulate and use like a charm, over and over again, other ones that are lesser known. Here’s one of the ones that is currently under the radar – your phone, provided that it’s a smartphone, and not an ancient candybar, is capable of taking pictures. You’re not going to take pictures of anything lewd, though, instead, simply take a picture of a food item you may have cooked, something interesting you saw, a bit of flowers that you saw on sale in a flower shop, and offer her some. It’ll be enough to get the conversation stimulated – all with the stunning ease of technology. Much easier than carrying a notepad in your pocket to scrawl down cute notes, eh?

3. Notepad is your friend in loud clubs.

While admittedly, it’s not an SMS, it has to do with cute text. One of the biggest issues guys have starting out in this is that they don’t know how to talk to girls in a venue whwere the music is fary too loud. That can easily be fixed. Whip out your smartphone, if the girl is showing enough compliance to you, and open up the notepad application, or any other app used to take down text notes. What’s the purpose of it? So you two can have a conversation in the crowded club without having to shout or actually have a conversation. Personally, I’ve known many eople who have implemented this simplistic fix into their bag of tricks and gotten a lot of results because of it. You have to make sure your text game is good, though. If it’s shoddy, and you write like you’re leaving a message on a friend’s ancient MySpace wall, filled with emoticons and textspeak, she may be much less likely to respond positively.

4. Seed future events that you can take her on.

Yes. That’s right. There’s no easier way to get somebody thinking about something than just mentioning it outright – but if you get someone’s number, there should always be a purpose behind it. There should always be a reason why you’re doing it – hence, you text her when you see something interesting and drop the idea the two of you should go to it. If she responds positively, you have a date set up, if she doesn’t respond well to it, oh well. You can try it on the next girl that you meet. But I guarantee that the act of her seeing that you’re going around town to engage in activities that are fun, coupled with you mentioning them to her will be enough to get her interested.

5. Exaggerated roleplay.

One of the basic tenets of humor is comedic exaggeration. One thing a lot of PUAs like doing when they text people, inventing fantastical situations or taking something the girl just said and blowing it out of proportion. If she play along, that’s a bit of compliance building momentum forward for you.

Keep in mind, no rules are written in stone. If you want to experiment with what’ll work the best with your personality and situation – you’re going to have to experiement.

Thankfully, you have the time and willpower to do just that.  Hope you found some of these ideas for cute texts helpful.