How to Flirt with a Girl through Text Messages

Flirting Over Text

When it comes to flirting, the future lies with texting. An increasing number of guys and girls have started texting with cell phones. It is a quick and inexpensive way to communicate and is great for sending flirtatious messages back and forth. If you are a guy that wants to improve his communication skills with girls, then you will certainly want to know how to use text messaging to do that.

Keep the Texts Short and Fun

Keep in mind that your messages don’t have to be anything grand, they can be just a little joke that you heard or a funny picture you pulled off the internet. Remember that sharing jokes with a girl is one way of flirting via text message. Next time your friend forwards you something funny, don’t hesitate to show it to a girl that you like.

Make sure to text her on a regular basis but don’t go overboard. You won’t want to seem like a stalker, so make sure to keep your distance while still letting her know how you feel through text messages. Asking her how her day is going or saying “good morning” when you wake up once in a while might be a good idea… once in awhile.. but if you do it every day… its get WEIRD.

Use Emoticons

Using emoticons is definitely another important thing to remember, because girls love to see them in text messages. It can be anything like a smiley face or a heart, but just make sure it goes along with whatever you are saying. The last thing you want to do is seem like you don’t know what you are doing while texting.

There are a lot of different emoticons, each with their own personality so make sure to explore them and see what you have to work with. Asking her questions about what she likes and giving her compliments is definitely another form of flirting and a way to win her over, so keep that in mind as well.

{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }

stephen west September 20, 2011 at 4:44 pm

i really like this girl and ive known her since i was about 14 im now 18 and were like dead close! but when i text her il be texting her for about 20 minuites and i just get boring and she doesnt text back cause i just ask boring stuff and im not good at flirtin and bein fun over textin could you help me

Joshua October 23, 2011 at 9:10 pm

Pick up a gr8 topic to chat about…also try to text about things u really want to tell her nd dat u cant tell her in person.

mohd anis November 24, 2011 at 10:12 pm

i hav a prb dat………
i really wanna cha8 wid sum1 nd itx just dat i dnt knw wat 2 cha8…..buh i cha8 wid her by askin borin quetions:(.
so watx de suggst..??????????

Freddy McIntyre December 10, 2011 at 2:20 pm

Basically, I really like this girl… But I dnt have a single clue what to talk about… Wtf? Please help me… Its getting reallly awkward LOL!!! X(

some what smooth dude February 23, 2012 at 1:25 am

Ok i have a prob, i did all the flirting things and asked the girl out and she said “Idk” does that mean yes or no?

E-Broski February 29, 2012 at 12:05 am

This is to SOME WHAT SMOOTH DUDE. If she doesn’t respond in a couple days or weeks or doesn’t talk to you soon— She’s not interested.

lollipop April 14, 2012 at 5:31 am

ask her how her day was. she’ll see that you care for her

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